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One reason why you feel dismissed in your relationship and like your needs and desires are not prioritized is because you are over-tending to the man you're with. Shift the dynamic between you two by expressing your feelings and needs clearly without nagging him, and observe how he responds to you to determine alignment and suitability.
One reason why you feel dismissed in your relationship and like your needs and desires are not prioritized is because you are over-tending to the man you're with. Shift the dynamic between you two by ... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
July 24, 2024•9 min read
Navigating the Dating World as a Single Mom: A Comprehensive Guide
Dating can be challenging for anyone, but for single moms, it often feels like an insurmountable task. The added responsibilities and emotional weight can make the prospect of finding a meaningful con... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &Q&A
July 22, 2024•4 min read
It feels like you never meet any man that is truly aligned with you because you can’t even tell if a man is the right man for you without being able to properly express yourself to him and taking him in as he responds to you.
If you’ve met and gone on dates with many men—some okay, others terrible, and a few really good—yet none have actually been aligned with you, one reason this happens is because you’re not properly exp... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
June 11, 2024•12 min read
NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life.
NOT enjoying yourself while dating and forming all of these dead end relationships with men is an indication that you’re probably abandoning your agency in your love life. ...more
Love for women ,IRL
April 25, 2024•12 min read
One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself and expressing what you are and aren’t available for, eliminating the need for you to keep on experiencing men with “red flags” over and over.
One reason why you keep meeting men with “red flags” is because you cut them off immediately instead of addressing the issue by speaking up for yourself... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
April 23, 2024•13 min read
High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed, keep you single by eliminating even suitable options for you.
High standards on their own don't keep you single. Nor do they eliminate suitable options for you. But your high standards built from anger, resentment, entitlement, and feeling “owed... ...more
Love for women ,EMODATA &IRL
April 04, 2024•12 min read
The reason why dating is exhausting to you is because you pour your energy all over a man and try to accelerate the connection with him when you start to like him (which repels him) instead of realizing that all you have to do is enjoy him, express that you like spending time with him, and allow him the freedom and space to step up for you or not.
The reason why dating is exhausting to you is because you pour your energy all over a man and try to accelerate the connection with him when you start to like him ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
April 02, 2024•11 min read
The reason why following the advice of "choose better men" doesn’t work for you is because you perceive selecting the 'right' man as a one-time, one-off decision rather than an ongoing practice that involves always choosing what you are and aren’t available for relative to your own well being, your heart, and the commitment, love, and support you desire now and in the long term with a man.
The reason why following the advice of "choose better men" doesn’t work for you is because you perceive selecting the 'right' man as a one-time... ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
April 01, 2024•10 min read
You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’ they happen is to get you to understand that you are responsible for your own heart and being loved well.
You weren't made to endure back-to-back mediocre or nightmare experiences in love, only to believe that 'everything happens for a reason.' Instead, accept that the ‘reason’... ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
March 27, 2024•10 min read
You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning and prioritizing that desire by reserving activities that would make you prematurely attached to him for deeper commitment.
You waste your own time being anxious about where your connection with a man you really like is going, instead of properly expressing to him that you desire marriage from the beginning... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
March 19, 2024•10 min read
You think finding the 'right' man is random and that you have to wait for your turn to get 'lucky' when in reality, the skill of prioritizing your well being and what you want is one of the skills that makes it possible for you to create the reality of you being well loved in your lifetime over and over again.
You think finding the 'right' man is random and that you have to wait for your turn to get 'lucky' when in reality... ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
March 15, 2024•7 min read
You don't have to change who you are to attract better men. You just have to make choices in love that support who you are now and contribute to the reality of you being claimed, committed to, and loved well as you are.
You don't have to change who you are to attract better men. ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
March 12, 2024•10 min read
Hesitating to express your wants, needs, and feelings to a man you're seeing stems from the fear of jeopardizing the connection, yet in reality, proper self-expression filters out men who are the wrong fit and attracts men who are the right fit for you from the start.
Hesitating to express your wants, needs, and feelings to a man you're seeing stems from the fear of... ...more
Love for women ,Love Sandwiches &IRL
March 11, 2024•11 min read
The reason the inner work you’re doing isn’t translating into you being claimed, committed to, and loved well is because you’re doing vague inner work that is comfortable and convenient, not the work that is required to get you what you want.
The reason the inner work you’re doing isn’t translating into you being claimed, committed to... ...more
Love for women ,IRL &Responsibility Triangle
March 09, 2024•11 min read
You think that you have "no control" over who you fall in love with, but in reality, you can make falling for a particular man a choice that respects your worth and the safety, support, and quality love that you want.
You think that you have "no control" over who you fall in love with, but in reality... ...more
Love for women ,EMODATA &IRL
March 06, 2024•13 min read
The reason why you have chaotic, uncertain, roller-coaster experiences with the men you like and things don’t ever end with you being and feeling safe, secure, and loved by a man is because you’re using your emotions to navigate the connection with them.
Too often I notice that you all come to me stressed out and in chaotic, all-over-the-place situations with men that are created out of you using your... ...more
Love for women ,EMODATA &IRL
February 29, 2024•12 min read
If you feel unimportant and unwanted in your one-sided relationship, here's what you can do:
I want to premise this by saying that this advice is specifically for women who are in a committed, boyfriend-girlfriend type of relationship, courtship. ...more
Love for women
January 30, 2024•5 min read
So, it’s always my fault, Dream??? - The necessary distinction between ‘fault’ and responsibility in love
This post has been a long time coming because there is a distinction between responsibility and fault within a relationship or marriage with a man that desperately needs clarification. ...more
Love for women
January 08, 2024•8 min read
Women want security, men want freedom… women hold the key to both???
Yes, in love, women are looking for security and men are looking for freedom. ...more
Love for women ,Deep Seated Unworthiness
December 09, 2023•7 min read
Choosing men based on what they do for work
A few weeks back, a woman asked me to cover a topic I haven't talked about yet. ...more
Love for women
November 17, 2023•7 min read
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