Lots of women get caught up in where to meet the right men. Or what to do or say or wear to attract the right type of men.

The truth is though, getting caught up in “how” the expansive love and union you desire is going to come into your life is not really worth your time.

This is because, it’s not really your job to come up with how it’s going to happen.

When your desire for union is pure, the how is already taken care of.

The truth is that both the power of a pure desire and the experience of expansive union exist on a transcendent level that goes beyond conventional perceptions of “reality”.

In other words, pure desire and expansive union exist on the same level. This level operates outside of and above “reality” and thus does not abide by the same rules or limitations we’re used to abiding by.

Desire, a pure one, holds within it it’s own blueprint for fulfillment. Your map from where you are now to being in the union you desire is within the desire itself.

This is why simply wanting what you want, from a pure place, is so powerful.

This power, however, is removed from a “desire” when it is NOT pure.

Naturally, after reading what I’ve written so far, these two questions may have come up within you:

1. What is a pure desire?

2. How do I desire union purely so that it comes into my life seamlessly?

To answer the first question, a pure desire is a desire that comes from freedom and leads to freedom; it is not a cover up for something else or a way to get a deep, emotional need met.

This means that if you delve into the core of your desire for expansive union and discover that it stems from a motive to escape or alleviate something within yourself, then it is NOT a pure desire.

So for instance, if the reason you desire union is so you can have a man validate that you’re actually lovable or desired, this is NOT a pure desire.

If you desire union so that you can prove to your family that you can actually “keep a man”, this is NOT a pure desire.

If you desire union so that you don’t have to deal with the difficulties of life and can just pawn them off to a man, this is NOT a pure desire.

If you desire union so that a man can come and save you from circumstances you find non-ideal, this is NOT a pure desire.

In each of these instances, the woman is coming from a limited place and trying to use union with a man as a means to an end; to satisfy something else that is bothering her.

She’s using her “desire” for union as a cover up to not deal with what is hers to deal with.

Now, this is not a call for hyper-independence and saying a woman shouldn’t accept help. She absolutely should, yet at the same time, she has to recognize that dealing with these things are her responsibility. It is between her and God. And she must own that.

Now to answer the second question…

A pure desire for union would be desiring union for what it can actually provide you; for what expansive union is all about.

An example of this is a woman remembering an old boyfriend and how she loved how he spoke to her, how he held her, the deep connection they had and how much she grew while in love with him.

She desires to experience that again now, but this time, even better and more intense because it was so life-giving and beautiful.

She wants to be connected with someone like that again: immersed in love like that again.

Can you tell how her desire is coming from freedom and leading to it?

Her desire is expansive and limitless. It comes from remembering the freedom she felt in her past and the freedom she’s thrilled to experience in the future.

This woman’s desired union would just ease into her life because it is pure, mobile, limitless, and not weighed down with anything that a union can NOT actually give her or that she must give to herself.

This woman, through her pure desire, is operating on the same transcendent level where expansive union and love exists.

Your desire for union must be pure, and through your desire, you begin to operate on the level where expansive union and love exists.

This is how expansive love and union are able to come into your life seamlessly…

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